Clingy

Ugh… I’ve recently met this chick, and she seems to think we are Best Friends Forever Ever… very misguided, I tell you!!

 

I’m a very quiet person, and I like to sometimes enjoy the peace and quiet – either on my own, or in the company of a good friend – you know how you don’t have to say anything sometimes. Well this chick NEVER EVER EVER shuts up! And the worst part is, she talks absolute hogwash! She knows best about *everything*! She sticks to me like glue! She meets me at my car when I arrive at the place we both go to. She follows me around, constantly yapping. She walks to my car with me when I leave. There is not a moments silence. No one else likes her… I mean, she is not a particularly horrible/mean person, she is just annoying as shit! And the fact that she thinks she is an expert on EVERYTHING is just as bad!

 

I really don’t know how to get rid of her! The last time I saw her, I almost cried with frustration! I just want to scream at her to leave me the f**k alone!! She is now starting to be bossy as well! Which I have just either ignored, or said “Uh, no!” when she tells me to do something. My gosh, I am so frustrated! She is so clingy and needy! I don’t think she has (or ever has had) any friends (not surprising!!).

 

I really don’t want to be mean to her, and tell her to eff off, as that is not in my nature… But hell man, I really really don’t want to be her friend! I will wave and say HI and BYE… but that’s really more than I even want!

 

She has added me as a friend on Facebook, she has asked for my phone number, she has a general idea of where I live! She kind of invited herself over once, and I just laughed, jumped in my car and raced out of there!!

It’s so bad that i’m wondering if I should change my day/time so that I don’t have to see her at this mutual place anymore! Also, it’s not like there are tons of people there anyway, that I can, like, hide behind, or something…

Arrrrgh! How did I get myself into this mess!???!

 

LOL – I tweeted about it and @markusher said i should: “freak her out somehow.while she is talking to you start screaming and running round like mad and chase after her hissing” … LMAO! may be the only option left!

 

Comments (5)

GinaApril 12th, 2011 at 11:52 am

Im sorry!!! Have no advice other than to say to her that you really dont have time to talk to her and then walk away. Hopefully she will take the hint…

alidaonlineApril 19th, 2011 at 10:59 am

I understand so well. I take quite a while to warm up to people so I find it really hard when someone all of a sudden latches on.

I’m leaning towards Gina’s advice. It doesn’t sound as if there is much else you can do.

Ugh.

AngelApril 25th, 2011 at 9:58 pm

OMG its not me is it!?
I never shut up!
*bites nails*

AngelApril 25th, 2011 at 9:59 pm

Okay, insecurities briefly aside, dreadfully clingy people won’t take a hint and direct criticism will be like water off a duck’s back.

TanyaApril 26th, 2011 at 11:31 am

Alida, yes, i am also very shy and takes ages to warm to people, which, of course, normally means that people tire of me easily coz i’m not super friendly!

LOL – no angel, definitely not you! hehe

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